I’ve had a few clients recount experiences with other practitioners. They felt a bit uncomfortable when during the massage, the practitioner chose to chant or in some cases even sing. Talking is one thing; in my viewpoint the option should always be with the client and not the massage therapist. Chanting or singing should never be something that is put into a session without the client being made aware of it first. I for one would opt out.
However, I do find that massage can be very meditative for both the massage therapist and the massage client. For some, it’s the only time and space where there is no requirement to talk. I often tell clients, “Your only job on the table is to breathe.” Often, their amazement at this statement brings me such great joy. We are all so busy these days, and checking in and talking and discussing, texting, many people find themselves tethered to communication devices (ie phones, smartphones, computers) that being allowed space and even invited not to communicate brings relief.
The mind is allowed to wander, as in savasana, a yoga practice that is a favorite of many yogis. In savasana you lie on the floor, ankles about mat width apart (yoga mat of course, about two feet),palms turned up toward the ceiling with hands a few inches from the hips. This is to relax all muscles after class, and also serves as a time where the mind and body are allowed tobe separate.
Let Go during your massage. Give yourself the space to relax and be open to what the mind brings. Feel free to share with your massage therapist, we hear quite a lot. I tell my massage clients, “It’s you, me and the four walls.” The massage therapist is there to give you space. Allow yourself that space and see what happens.
If you do encounter a massage therapist that seemingly demands conversation when you want quiet or chants and sings without telling you it’s part of their practice. Let your next massage therapist know about your experience. Massage is as individual to the practitioner as it is to the receiver.
